Not this time around

Well, I took an early test because I couldn't stand to wait, and it was of course negative.  I'm not really surprised.  I am also not surprised that my husband is being a big jerk and keeps accusing me of being 'baby crazy'.  I asked him to use the laptop cooling pad tonight to keep his sperm count down and he started acting like a giant ass about it.  He says that IF we have a problem, then we'll address it.  I think he's being really insensitive by not even humoring me.  And it's not like I'm making him change his entire lifestyle or do something crazy and superstitious like pat his head and turn around three times.  I'm just asking him to take a basic precaution to give us the best chances possible of conceiving, and what I'm asking him to do is based on medical fact.  Sigh.